I was drastically uneasy to meet our wife’s parents before both of us got married because I have had such exhausting luck with previous partners.
My first lady in high university had a dad who was a gun freak & he would brandish his weapons in front of me as an intimidation tactic.
When I met our next lady’s parents, they acted racist towards me. This came out of left field, because I was told inalways that I was accepted by her family in a moment of weakness on her part. She was more interested in lying as long as it meant avoiding any form of fight with each other. That made me realize fairly early on why both of us were so unusual & why both of us would have inevitably grown apart. Thankfully things are drastically unusual this time around. Instead of having ignorant or hateful in-laws, I have 2 stoners who smoke as much medical cannabis as I do. In fact, our wife said her parents nervously asked her if I smoked weed when both of us first met because they said it wouldn’t labor if I wasn’t pro-cannabis. Not only am I pro-cannabis, however I have been a medical marijuana card holder in our state ever since the first years they were giving out medical marijuana cards to people with approved medical conditions. When I finally visited our in-laws for the first time both of us all shared a joint around the kitchen table. I right away knew I would get along with our wife’s parents for the long term which actually made me recognize good inside.