I was extremely sad to meet my spouse’s parents before the people I was with and I got married because I have had such bad fortune with previous partners.
My first girlfriend in high school had a dad who was a gun freak plus she would brandish her weapons in front of me as an intimidation tactic.
When I met my next girlfriend’s parents, they acted racist towards me. This came out of left field, because I was told inproperly that I was accepted by her family in a moment of weakness on her part. She was more interested in lying as long as it meant avoiding any form of conflict with each other. That made me realize fairly early on why the people I was with and I were so uncommon plus why the people I was with and I would have inevitably grown apart. Thankfully things are drastically uncommon this time around. Instead of having ignorant or hateful in-laws, I have several stoners who smoke as much medical cannabis as I do. In fact, my spouse said her parents worriedly asked her if I smoked weed when the people I was with and I first met because they said it wouldn’t work if I wasn’t pro-cannabis. Not only am I pro-cannabis, although I have been a medical marijuana card holder in my state ever since the first years they were giving out medical marijuana cards to people with approved medical conditions. When I finally visited my in-laws for the first time the people I was with and I all shared a joint around the kitchen table. I right away knew I would get along with my spouse’s parents for the long term which entirely made me suppose enjoyable inside.